Sunday, November 8, 2009

Making My Life Easier

This was a particularly difficult weekend.  Yesterday afternoon (when Chris goes to his guitar lesson and I get time with the kids alone), Cooper got up early from his nap and was super crabby all afternoon.  This meant he basically cried for 2 hours.  My nerves were shot from yesterday.  Today Charlotte cried and whined pretty much all day.  Cooper is growing and his hungry all the time and Charlotte is getting her last 2 molars on the bottom.

We are always looking for ways to make our lives easier, especially when we have days like yesterday and today.  The kids have learned to push chairs to where ever they want to climb/get into stuff so we’ve had to get creative.  I mean how do you child proof a table and chairs?  This is how:

For child-size table and chairs just tie a piece of rope to the chairs and attach the other end to the table.  First they get mad, but then they get used to it.DSC04221

For adult size table and chairs, use bungee cords and attach opposite chairs to each other.  The chairs get bunched together, but now they can’t climb on the table or move the chairs.DSC04232

There is going to be a new device on the market soon!  How many mom's own sippy cups with straws?  And how the heck do you get those straws clean?  They get really gross with the toddler backwash!!  Check out this really cool product coming out soon!  This woman will probably make some big bucks.  Wish I would have though to put a brush on a piece of wire that could be shoved down a straw and sell it for $4!  I could quit my day job!!

Saturday, November 7, 2009

Just Say Thank You

A gal I went to college with wrote a post the other day called 'Knock it Off' that was about the little voice inside our heads that doesn't allow us to be proud of who we are and what we look like.  It inspired me to do my own post on the same topic.  I think it's really easy to make excuses or dismiss a compliment when someone says something nice about you.  It's also easier to look in the mirror and see all the things you don't like about yourself.

This is even more true post-baby for me.  I have always been confident and make an effort to look in the mirror and consciously see all the things I love about myself instead of the things I hate.  Since college I have made it a rule to just say thank you when someone gives me a compliment.  However, since having Cooper, my hips are wider, my breasts less perky, my tummy softer, and I have several stretch marks.  I am still not used to seeing myself this way and it takes a lot more effort to see all the things I like about myself.  So here's my list to remind myself of what I like about myself.  No excuses, no qualifications.

  •   I have beautiful eyes.  They are sometimes green, sometimes gold, sometimes gray.  My long eyelashes frame them perfectly.
  • My natural hair color is beautiful and have no need to dye my hair.
  • I have really pretty hands and fingernails (I get this from my mom!)
  • I have beautiful full lips.
  • I have a nice butt.
  • I have a great smile and an infectious laugh.
  • My emotions are written all over my face and because of this you always know that I am being honest.
  • I am direct, but also diplomatic.
  • I am crazy tall and I love the attention I get for it and how great clothes look on me.
  • I am a fantastic mom and wife.
  • I am very intelligent, creative, and articulate.

Please leave a comment and tell me 3 things (or more) that you like about yourself.  No excuses, no qualifications.

And the next time someone pays you a compliment, the only appropriate response you should have is 'Thank you.'

Friday, November 6, 2009

Final Speech Report

We had a meeting for Charlotte's speech stuff today.  The new case worker came and explained how everything will work.  We reviewed the final report from the evaluation and then reviewed the plans forward.

Charlotte's social/emotional behavior during the evaluation was noted that she is very self directed and easily frustrated.  When she gets upset she cries, throws toys, or has tantrums.  This behavior may be just because of her lack of speech or there may be other underlying issues.  The plan is to start the speech therapy and if the therapist sees that Charlotte is unable to learn because of behavior issues we will have a social/emotional evaluation and deal with that before attempting further speech therapy.

Charlotte's cognition was evaluated to be equivalent of a 19 month old.  She problem solves appropriately for age, demonstrates use of everyday objects and imitates clapping and scribbling.  For play skills she is functioning at 18 month level.  She understands functional use of objects, demonstrates understanding of functional relationships, and demonstrates an anticipation of play activities.  She does not engage in pretend play and does not sequence related actions in play (e.g. first feed the baby then lay the baby down to sleep).

Charlotte is functioning at an 18-21 month old level in receptive language skills.  She follows one step commands, looks when she hears her name, attends to objects mentioned in conversation and gestures in response to verbal requests.  She does not follow novel or two-step related commands or identify objects by category.

Charlotte's expressive language is at a 9-12 month old level.  She uses some single words spontaneously to communicate, however she does not use these words consistently or uses them for a variety of communicative purposes.  She imitates some familiar words or sounds but has difficulty imitating upon request.  She vocalizes with intent frequently, but she does not use words or signs to indicate completion of an activity or to request an object.  Instead she screams, whines or throws tantrums. 

Charlotte will have 2 hours of speech therapy a week (twice a week, an hour each time) which will take place at our house.  She will continue with therapy through the Early Start program until she is age 3 or no longer needs it.  If she needs it past age 3 then we will go through the school district.

The goals are as follows:

  1. Charlotte will maintain stable health.  The parents will schedule and attend all necessary doctor's appointments.  Immunizations to be given as recommended by pediatrician.  Hearing and vision will be monitored to regularly.  Parents will schedule audiological evaluation as needed to rule out hearing loss. 
  2. Charlotte will demonstrate age appropriate developmental skills in 3/5 trials, across 3 consecutive sessions.  She will engage in 1-2 step symbolic (on others/dolls) and autosymbolic (on self) play.  She will use two toys together in play, identify objects by simple categories (animals, food, clothing) and follow 2-step related commands.  She will imitate consonant and vowel combinations (mama, dada, baba, gaga, etc), non-speech sounds (cars, vacuums, etc), and animal sounds in play.  She will spontaneously use a word or sign to ask to have her needs met.  She will increase her expressive vocabulary to 20 words for a variety of communicative functions and she will imitate the name of 5 familiar objects.
  3. Charlotte will successfully transition into a school program at the age of 3.  A transition referral packet will be sent to the school district and district personnel, parents and the caseworker will attend a transition meeting.  The child will be assessed by the school district and a start date for the school program will be identified.  She will begin the district program on her 3rd birthday or the date following her 3rd birthday as determined at the meeting.

We will meet with the caseworker every 6 months to formally review Charlotte's progress and determine if she needs additional evaluations as well as if she needs to continue therapy.  Charlotte will likely start therapy within the next 2 weeks.

Overall this was a lot of info and a lot to hear about her development.  Many of the things we already knew, but it still seemed a bit shocking to see it all on paper.  We are really glad the Early Start program exists and that we can get her help.  We'll keep everyone updated!

Thursday, November 5, 2009

Monkey Business

Cooper's newest pastime:DSC04184 DSC04190

Wednesday, November 4, 2009

Stroller Crazy

I'm pretty sure these $10 doll strollers are not meant to hold a 30 lb toddler.  They've been sitting in them since we bought the strollers , but they've only recently started pushing each other around in them.  (If you notice that is the same shirt that Charlotte wore for holiday pictures last year.  The girl just doesn't grow.)DSC04191 DSC04195

And here is why we rarely let them play with the strollers inside and why we also separate the kids from Scout when they are being rambunctious (Scout has a comfy bed in the office which is sectioned off from the house by a baby gate.)  Poor dog.

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