Wednesday, December 31, 2008

911

I've never had to call 911.  Today that changed.  It was very scary.  Everything is okay, so that's a huge relief.

I was taking a shower around 8:40 am this morning.  I was trying to hurry a little since I knew the kids were a tired and would be going down for a nap soon.  I also wanted to get ready for the day before my hair appointment at 12:30.

In the middle of my shower I hear a loud bang and then a baby crying.  I figure it was Charlotte or Cooper being clumsy and Chris would be comforting them until they were okay.  Then Chris barges into the bathroom holding Cooper who has a very red face and is crying and gagging.  I look at Chris to see the panic in his face and he says, "Salina, Cooper swallowed something and I can't get it out and he can't breathe."  My heart jumped in my throat.

I do a quick finger sweep (although I know that can be equally dangerous if I push it further) but don't feel anything obvious in his mouth.  I told Christopher that we needed to call 911 and I would get out of the shower.  

By that time Charlotte had crawled in the bathroom to check out the toilet.  Cooper was still gagging, but coughing so I knew he was getting some air.  Chris starts to try to get Charlotte out of the bathroom and I sternly tell him to leave her I'll take care of it and to go call 911.

He leaves the bathroom I jump out throw some clothes on and as I am getting dressed Chris comes back in and says that Cooper vomited blood all over him.  I tell him "CALL 911 RIGHT NOW" and take Cooper from him.  I could feel the panic rising in me and I could see that was having problems staying calm and thinking clearly. 

I got both kids out of the bathroom.  Cooper seemed to calm down a little bit in my arms and he was gulping a little for air, but he wasn't coughing any more.  Chris was on the phone with 911 to give him the short details about what happened and our address.

It was about 9 am when Chris called and the paramedics arrived within about 5 min.  There were four of them who came in the house.  Chris was trying to feed Charlotte breakfast and both kids just stared with big wide eyes.  We had to lock the dog away so they could check out Cooper.

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He asked if he seemed alright to us.  I told him that he seemed a little tired, but it was close to nap time and that he seemed very laid back especially with all the new people.  Usually he would be a little hysterical with so many new faces.  The paramedics decided because he was being a little unusual that we should go to the hospital to have x-rays.

I grabbed my purse (but forgot to put my glasses on) and carried Cooper to the ambulance by 9:15.  Chris and Charlotte planned to follow behind once he was done feeding Charlotte breakfast.  We got in the ambulance and they had a baby carrier that we put Cooper in.  Once we were driving I told them that he had outgrown the carriers because of his height.  They agreed and said they should have asked us to grab our car seat instead.  I didn't know this, but it's not standard for ambulances to even put babies in car seats!!!  They just seatbelt the mom down and make her hold the baby?!!?  I couldn't believe it!!  I'm glad our paramedics had insisted on having a car seat on their ambulance.

Cooper slept almost the entire ride to the hospital.  We went to Hoag hospital where Cooper was born.  Although it's at least an extra 10 minutes away, we felt the most comfortable with it because we know what to expect service wise and just how to navigate the hospital.  I called to let Chris know we were in the emergency area, room 50 and to just let the desk know and they would direct him to us.  He arrived about 10 minutes after we did (no he didn't speed, but the ambulance didn't turn on it's lights either).

The paramedics got the info they needed (I was surprised I've memorized Cooper's SSN so quickly) and then left.  They gave Cooper an ID bracelet and also gave me one.   DSC02688 The doctor checked Cooper out and wasn't even sure he had swallowed anything.  We said were were sure of it.  While we waited, I cancelled my hair appointment and rescheduled for 3:00 pm

 

(Cooper with daddy, eating the wipes package, waiting for the second x-ray.)

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We did one set of x-rays, which came back inconclusive.  We did a second set and the doctor said nothing is showing up and he appears to be asymptomatic.  He said that it could be that he swallowed something but it went to his stomach and the x-rays can't see it (like something plastic, paper or food).  In that case it's likely not bigger than a nickle and that he would pass it in a day or two.  In a rare situation he may have aspirated it and the x-rays aren't picking it up.  He said to look out for a fever and/or breathing problems and to call his pediatrician at the first sign.  We finally left at 1 pm!

So it was an exhausting day and a very scary morning.  Although I am certified in CPR and first aid, I am not trained in infant or child CPR.  Chris is not trained in any of it.  We also haven't thought through emergency plans for first aid problems, fire or earthquake.  This situation was so real and so scary, we will be working on that stuff immediately.  I will also be checking into getting certified (for both of us) for infant and child CPR.

Chris has been blaming himself.  I explained to him that it was an accident and we responded appropriately and Cooper is just fine as a result.  I told him that with Cooper's intense curiosity and with no fear to stop him, this probably won't be the last trip to the ER. 

Cooper did really well all afternoon.  He was back to his normal smiling, giggling self.  He was a little more cuddly and wanted to DSC02685sit with me most of the afternoon and evening, but he didn't have any breathing problems or coughing episodes.  We watched both kids like a hawk for the rest of the day.

 

 

 

 

I was able to make it to my hair appointment.

Before:hair before

After (right before bed...): 

Oh, and Happy New Year!!

Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Happy Birthday Wishes

Today is Grandma Toni's birthday (Christopher's stepmom).  The kids have a message for her:

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Monday, December 29, 2008

Alpha Baby

Yesterday was such a tough day!  Charlotte is getting her two molars on the bottom and they are causing her some pain.  As a result she is VERY cranky during the day.  Poor baby.  She takes about 5 hours in total naps (usually 2-3 hours) and then spends most of her awake time crying over something.  She is still sleeping well at night though, so I suppose that's a good thing!  I feel so bad for her and I can't wait for those teeth to come in already!

Cooper is clapping!  He's a little uncoordinated with it, but it's funny to watch.  He has also figured out that he can 'chase' the dog and she'll do her crazy running around the house.  Chris said that he was in their room changing Charlotte's diaper today and he hears Cooper cracking up in the living room.  He finishes up and goes out to see what he's doing.  Chris just sees Cooper sitting on the floor laughing while Scout is running all over. Then Scout stops and Cooper gives her another chase to get her going again.  My wonderful husband got both of these on video!

Cooper has also started throwing tantrums.  They are cute tantrums though (for now).  He also demands that we walk him around the house holding his hands.  And if we quit walking him the tantrum begins.  As my friend Emmy puts it, he is a little Drill Sergeant.

The kids have also started jockeying for Alpha Baby.  Although my couple of attempts at getting it on video, don't do it justice, it at least gives you an idea.  They are constantly repositioning each other's hands to move the other one out of the way.  They also fight over a toy until one of them decides the toy isn't worth the hair pulling, pinching, hitting, and yelling.  Lately Cooper has been the Alpha Baby.  Although Charlotte may just be under the weather because of her teeth, since up until now she has been the Alpha Baby.

A couple cute pictures (look at that drool!):

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And here are all the videos (the walking/tantrum video is with our HD video camera...we now have Adobe CS4 which handles our video output and easily converts it to an AVI file!!!  Woohoo, now we can shoot with it and post the videos on the blog or edit them with a few simple clicks to import and export the video out of Premiere):

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p.s.  If you still want to see birthday video you can bug Christopher...he's taking his time editing it. I'm sure he can find time to fit it in with taking care of hungry, crying babies all day!  :)

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Merry Christmas

I have to say, having kids at Christmas brings back all the magic and excitement.  It is the best feeling in the world to see their face light up in the morning!

Cooper wouldn't go to bed last night until almost 8:30.  I guess he was too excited for Santa.  Then he decided to give us a wake up call at 4:30 this morning.  Again, I think he was just too excited for Christmas.  Luckily he fell back asleep for a few hours before getting up for the day.

Both Charlotte and Cooper seemed to have a lot of fun today because it was difficult getting them to take a nap and stay asleep.  They just wanted to be awake with all their new stuff.  I still don't think they've discovered everything yet.  All I know is that we need to get a real toy box now.

Christopher was very generous in his gift giving and gave me a set of pearl earrings (to go with my pearl necklace he gave me for our anniversary).  They are beautiful.

I cooked Christmas dinner.  The ham and sweet potatoes were delicious!!  Okay...on to the important part of the post (or at least the part the grandparents are dying to see)....

This year we decided to skip wrapping presents (at least for the kids), since it would require us to just unwrap everything (they don't get it yet).  We put all their old toys in their room, where they stayed and played for at least 10 minutes.

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Then we made them come out to the the living room.  They sort of just stared at everything.  (Could their jammies be any cuter?!?!)

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Then they posed for the camera.

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And the discovery began...

The cookie jar was a big hit

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So was the Laugh and Learn table...

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Cooper wanted to play with all the toys at once

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Charlotte was content with the table

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They weren't sure what to do with their new chairs and they fought over that butterfly all morning

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Even Scout enjoyed Christmas

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And this was breakfast... 

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We want to thank everyone so much for all the wonderful gifts and holiday wishes.  We wish we could have been home this year!! 

And Happy Birthday to my baby sister, Savannah!!  She turns 22 today!

Monday, December 22, 2008

Oh. my. goodness.

Cooper is so going to walk. Soon.  We're in trouble.

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Sorry it's blurry.  He just moves so fast we barely had time to grab the camera and film it.  He's really only 8 months old?!?  So different than Charlotte.

Sunday, December 21, 2008

Great pictures

The new camera takes some really amazing pictures...we still haven't figured out all of the settings yet.  Some of these pictures seem a little off because we were messing with the settings.

Beautiful eyes

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Laundry Day

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Mommy and Cooper snuggling on the couch

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Charlotte thinks Scout needs her teeth brushed

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Scout thinks the toothbrush is very tasty

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Extreme close up

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Friday, December 19, 2008

1 Year Check up

Holidays are a lot of work...I love them, but I seriously can't wait until they are over!!  Work is busy, home is busy, and I am tired.  Twice this week I have fallen asleep when Cooper goes to bed at 7 pm!  I feel like a zombie.  I've decided to take a few days off around the holidays because I am feeling a little spent.

We had Charlotte's 1 year check up today.  She weighs 21 lbs and was 29.5 inches long...still in the 50-75th percentile for both weight and height.  And she still has a big head in the greater than 95th percentile.  (We already guessed that nothing had changed since we still have to buy shirts with snaps at the neck to be able to get things over her head...and anything with a collar seems to make it very obvious!)  She got three shots...the MMR, chicken pox, and her third Hep B (this is really her 4th Hep B, but the timing was off).  She cried really hard, but calmed down quickly.  Daddy seems to have some sort of magic with her.

We asked about her eating habits, because really, this girl can eat!!  I swear she eats more food than I do!!  I'm convinced she has a bottomless stomach.  The doctor says feed when she is hungry and consider giving her a 3rd snack, but don't worry about over-feeding.  She'll stop when she's full.  I guess she doesn't get full because she will eat when we offer it to her.

We also asked about the fact that she still doesn't crawl.  The doctor says that crawling is important for balance and the alternating arm/leg coordination.  If she is doing it for army crawling then she is likely okay.  We will have to continue to watch her when she starts walking to make sure she gets the coordination down.

We asked about her tantrums, lack of patience and extreme frustration.  She lashes out very easily when she is tired, hungry or doesn't get her way.  She has also started purposely hurting Cooper (although I don't think she actually  knows that she causes pain...just that she gets her way).  She will pinch him, hit him (with hands and toys), pulls his hands off things so he falls, or knocks him down when he is standing, sits on him, kicks him, and steals toys (he holds his own pretty well and seems to fight back okay or not seem to mind all that much).  The doctor says that she may likely deal with self control for many years and that we are doing the right thing by making her wait a little bit for things (teaches patience), staying calm, and doing time out (1 minute for every year of age).

We also asked about her strange behavior when holding her.  She doesn't 'grab' onto us when we hold her, not with her legs, not with her hands.  She stays pretty limp.  Even when we loosen our grip a little, she allows herself to sort of fling all over instead of having the instinct to grab on.  We're concerned because it could be a sign of her not bonding with us.  The doctor says it is a little strange, but since she is showing affection and developing otherwise, that it could be that she isn't a very clingy baby.  It still bothers me...plus she is super difficult to hold because of it.

We had tentatively planned to go have the developmental screening done.  This is something we have to get done for the adoption, but the doctor is glad we are having it done as well.  We decided with the shots and being past naptime that we will go another time.  The next screening happens early January.

I posted the Christmas photo shoot and birthday pictures on the Shutterfly site.

Sunday, December 14, 2008

Birthday Party Fun

We had a fun day today.  Both babies slept in a little and were in a great mood when they woke up.  We all snuck in to say Happy Birthday to Charlotte this morning.  She greeted us with her usual morning smile.  She started out the day in a pretty white dress.

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We made yogurt for breakfast, since that is her favorite.  However, today, she decided she hated the yogurt so we quickly switched it out for bananas.  They played for awhile and then Cooper went down for the morning nap and Charlotte wanted to continue to stay up.  She finally went down after an hour of playing, just in time for Cooper to wake up.

We got the house all decorated and the food prepared for the party (hot dogs and hamburgers.)  Charlotte got up from her nap just in time for her party.  We changed her clothes to a purple romper since her dress was dirty from breakfast and crawling all over.  Caren, Richard and Cecily came over. 

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Everyone had lunch and then we served the cake.  She had a cake all her own so she could really dig in.

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We put a hat on and she wasn't so sure about it.  We should have put it on before she dipped her fingers in the frosting.

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Charlotte continued to enjoy her cake while Cooper checked out his hat.

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Cooper finally got a piece of cake.

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and tasted it

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then shoved handfuls in his mouth

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all the while Charlotte was thoroughly enjoying herself

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The cake was so good Cooper tried to eat the plate.

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We had to take them in the bathroom and spray them off!  We changed her into yet another outfit before opening presents.  Cecily helped open the presents.

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All the loot:

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Charlotte took another short nap (no doubt the sugar was a culprit) and Cooper took a very long nap (obviously birthday parties are exhausting).  Both kids were cranky for dinner, and then they played in their room for awhile before it was bath time and bedtime.

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We have video...but it will have to wait!  I'll make Chris work fast and furious to edit the birthday cake and opening presents together so everyone can experience Charlotte's first birthday!