Wednesday, November 6, 2013

Serendipity

I love my new job.  I haven’t been this happy in my career in a long time.  I love getting up and going to work.  I love what I do.  I love the environment I work in.  I respect the people I work with and enjoy spending time with them.  I have freedom and autonomy like I’ve never had in a job.  I am so happy I made this change when I did.

I read a news article today.  My previous employer is cutting 20% of it’s workforce (800 people), closing the office in Texas, and reducing the number of plays from 30 to 5.  I have friends who are impacted by these changes.

Serendipity.  Right place, right time.  Right door, right opportunity.  Story of my life.

Monday, November 4, 2013

Very Busy Day

Today was a ridiculously busy day, so this post won’t be very exciting.  I went to work early (get in by 6:30 am compared to the normal 8 am)to finish up some work I needed to get done.  I left around 11 am to get home to eat lunch.  Every time I have personal stuff to take care of, I am so thankful I have such a flexible work schedule.  Although, since I have some operations going on I still had to manage email and texts all day. 

Chris and I decided several months ago that we were really very happy with the size of our family and the thought of more children stresses us out.  Although I have an IUD, which is one of the most effective birth controls, we both are still worried about an oops pregnancy.  Chris scheduled his vasectomy for 1 pm today, so after lunch I took him to the surgical center.  He was awesomely funny, and very chatty from the valium after surgery.  It was an entertaining car ride home to say the least. 

After getting home about 2 pm and making sure he was comfortable, I left to fill his pain medication prescription and grab a much needed coffee for myself.  Once I got back, I did all the prep work for the beef stew I was making for dinner (turned out delicious!).  I finished just in time to go pick up the kids from school at 3:30 pm and get them home for snack.  Then it was off to karate class at 4:15 for them. 

After karate, we rushed home at 5 pm so I could finish making dinner.  I served food to everyone about 5:30 pm, ate my own food quickly, and got ready for ballet.  I made sure Chris was comfy and reminded the kids to help daddy.  I was out the door by 6:00 pm for rehearsal and class at 6:15 pm.  I had to cut class 30 min short so that I could rush home to put the kids to bed by 8 pm (class usually goes until 8  pm).  After their bedtime, I had to finish up some the stretching I normally do after ballet class because I could feel my muscles getting sore and tight.

And now I’m just exhausted after reading about my very busy day.  Time for some vegging in front of the TV I think.

Sunday, November 3, 2013

Family Photo Storytelling Session

It has been a few years since we’ve had family photos taken.  I don’t mind having the posed, formal portraits done, but I can do those myself with a tripod (see holiday card photo from last year).  I came across a photographer who does travel sessions and has a unique artistic view point.  Her ability to capture personalities is superb and the use of film over digital gives her photos an almost ethereal feel to them.

I asked her to come to Denver for a family session for us.  I gave her several options for what we typically do as a family, and taking the train downtown to have frozen yogurt inspired her the most.  I was so excited because it meant that we would capture so many of the elements of us as a family.  Charlotte LOVES trains.  I ride the train to/from work every day.  We have frozen yogurt as a family every weekend.  Chris and I go to downtown often for date nights.  Cooper is enamored with the city.

Look how amazing they turned out!  She captured us as a family so well and under some of the most challenging circumstances – mid-day light, lots and lots of people around, traffic/buses/businesses.  I can’t wait to blow these up and put them on our wall to make a gallery of sorts.

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(Thank you Nik.)

Saturday, November 2, 2013

Rave: The Fresh 20

About 1.5 years ago, I read an article about President Obama and how he makes so many huge, life changing decisions every day.  The article was fascinating, but what I got out of it most was that when he became president, he limited the number of every day decisions he had to make in order to clear up space in his head to make all the important decisions. 

Chris and I were spending 15-20 min every single night deciding what to eat, and too many times we would just end up grabbing food or going out.  As part of my health goal last year, I wanted to eat and cook healthier.  So we started meal planning on a monthly basis using a white board calendar.  We spent 20 min one Sunday a month and planned the entire month of dinners.  We chose the main meal for dinner and I would base my grocery shopping off what we were having.  We had to make up the sides on the fly, but for dinner we had a protein and two vegetables, so it was fairly easy.

We learned a lot, tried a lot of new meals, and we were fairly successful at reducing the times we would go out to eat.  However, I found myself overwhelmed with grocery shopping.  It was taking way too long - 2 stores for about 60-90 min each store, mostly because I wandered around.  It also made me ill and left me highly frustrated how often we were throwing away food.  It was very bothersome because we were spending close to $1200 a month on grocery shopping (meals, lunches, snacks, toiletries, pet care), only to turn around and throw most of it away every week.

As part of our goal this year, we set out to focus on personal finance.  We have created a budget and work hard to stick to it.  One of the items I really wanted to target was our grocery bill, because I felt it was very unreasonable, plus we wasted a significant amount of food.

A couple months ago, I heard about The Fresh 20 Meal Planning site.  It sounded too good to be true, honestly.  For about $1/week, my weekly dinner meals would be planned (full meal, including sides) with 20 fresh, in-season ingredients, with the intent of reducing waste.  My grocery list would be automatically generated, nutrition information provided, and both the grocery shopping trip time and bill would be reduced.

So does it work?  A resounding, absolute YES.

Somebody else thinks about the meals and plans a week’s worth of menus to reduce waste.  I reuse the ingredients in a new way throughout the week.  This means I spend time preparing items the first night and then re-use them on the 3rd night for something completely different.  This also means that the prep time can be as fast as 15 min.  The longest prep time has been 1 hour.

The food is delicious, healthy, and filling.  We have 3 meat/chicken meals, 1 seafood, and 1 vegetarian meal a week.  We’ve never eaten vegetarian meals, prior to this menu and we have also learned how to make different kinds of seafood.  Not every meal is a hit and we’ve only had one meal not edible – we realized we don’t like chipotle peppers!  We haven’t had the same thing twice.

We paid for the year subscription, which comes out to about $1/week.  We did this to get access to the archives, so that if we don’t like a menu one week, we just pull one from the prior year’s archives.  And our grocery bill?  We spend ~$100-$130/week on dinners, lunches, and snacks.  We spend another $200/month on pet care and toiletries.  This means our total grocery bill has been nearly cut in half.

And grocery shopping?  I go to one store and I am in and out in about 30 min.  The grocery list tells me exactly how much to buy of each item (pounds, ounces, number, etc) and it’s organized by how the grocery store is set up.  I don’t wander around and I have become more familiar with new kinds of produce, utilizing the butcher counter, and even trying new kinds of cheese.

I HIGHLY recommend The Fresh 20 meal plan.  And for those of you with special diets, they have: Vegetarian, Gluten Free, Dairy Free, Kosher and For One.  We do the classic menu.

Friday, November 1, 2013

Movember

November is ALSO the month where Chris doesn’t shave as a way to raise awareness for Prostate Cancer, Testicular Cancer, and Men’s Health.  I don’t think Chris raises money, but he does it because it’s an easy reminder that men’s health issues can be just as serious as women’s health issues.  Eventually I will post a picture of the before/after, although Chris hasn’t shaved since Oct 26th, so he’ll be extra furry.